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5 Tips for Communicating without Starting a Fight

Whether you are defending your faith, telling someone about God, or simply in a discussion—these simple tips can help you communicate effectively without high blood pressure or raising your voice:

  1. Start with examples your audience will understand: Always start with an example or concept your audience knows, understands, or finds interesting, and connect it to your core message.
  2. Speak your audience’s language: When you speak to an audience, to the extent possible, you must speak their language.
  3. Use witness: Consider the use of witnesses essential to the construction of an effective message based on narrative and ethos. Wherever possible, elicit testimonies.
  4. Know when to speak: There are a lot of important topics in the world, and it is not necessary that you have something to say about all of them—particularly if speaking on the topic would hurt your credibility or detract from your primary goal.
  5. And know when to be silent: Silence is one of the most powerful forms of communication. It shows that you are in control and gives the person or people a moment to think for themselves and consider how they will respond to your message

Read full article from Relevant Magazine here. Adapted from How to Argue Like Jesus.

January 25, 2010 | Posted in: Books,Evangelism,Speech | Author: Crossway Staff @ 7:58 am | 1 Comment »

R. C. Sproul on Romans

R. C. Sproul talks about his new expositional commentary on the book of Romans. Throughout church history the study of the book of Romans has been pivotal to understanding Christian life and doctrine.

Convinced that Pauls fullest, grandest, most comprehensive statement of the gospel is just as vital today, R. C. Sproul delivered nearly sixty sermons on Romans from October 2005 to April 2007 at St. Andrews Chapel, where he has pastored for more than a decade. These never-before-published, passage-by-passage expositions will enrich any study of this weighty epistle.

January 22, 2010 | Posted in: Author,Books | Author: Crossway Staff @ 9:25 am | 0 Comments »

Suffering and the Goodness of God on Trackback Thursday

9781581348590This week’s trackback Thursday is Suffering and the Goodness of God—from Crossway’s Theology in Community Series.

When believers face suffering and hardships, the question they most often ask is, Why? Editors Morgan and Peterson offer biblical truths about suffering and challenge believers to promote justice in the harsh, unsure world, that we might emulate God’s grace as we minister to those who are suffering.

A reminder of how Trackback Thursday works: Simply link to the blog post from your blog, leave a comment on Crossway’s Facebook Page, or re-tweet Trackback Thursday on Twitter @Crosswaybooks. Winners are picked on Friday morning.

THINGS THAT DON’T HELP
What not to say to those who are suffering

Excerpt modified from chapter 10 by John Feinberg:

  • There must be some great sin you committed; otherwise this wouldn’t be happening to you. This was the reaction of many of Job’s miserable comforters. Scripture is clear that sometimes the ungodly prosper and the righteous suffer. The truth is that in most instances we don’t really know whether someone suffers as a righteous person or as a sinner.
  • Focus on the loss of things rather than on the loss of people. People could miss the opportunity to minister in times of crisis and hinder rather than helping the healing process.
  • People try to comfort us by convincing us that what has happened spares us from other problems.
  • I know how must feel at a time like this. One problem is that it isn’t true and the sufferer knows it. Hence it sounds phony when you say it. Even if you think you know how I feel and even if the same thing happened to you, you don’t. Now, it may be, especially if something similar has happened to you, that you tell me this because you think I might be encouraged by seeing that others have suffered greatly and yet have survived it. What helps is not knowing you feel like I do, but knowing that you care.
January 21, 2010 | Posted in: Books,Loving Others,Suffering | Author: Crossway Staff @ 7:51 am | (2) Comments »

The Difference Between Tolerance and Love

We are not merely called to tolerate those who disagree with us; we are called to love. The world’s idea of tolerance is a parody of the Christian understanding of love.

Tolerance is passive. Love is active. Tolerance is a feeling of apathy. Love is accompanied by feelings of great affection. Tolerance keeps people at arm’s length in hopes of not offending them. Love embraces people where they are and ‘hopes all things.’ Tolerance leaves people alone as individuals. Love ushers people into a community of generosity. Tolerance keeps a safe distance between those in need. Love rolls up its sleeves in service even to those who may be unlikeable. Tolerance avoids confrontation in order to maintain ‘peace.’ Love tells the truth boldly and graciously in order to bring about a deeper, more lasting peace.”

Excerpt from Holy Subversion (pp 145-146)

January 20, 2010 | Posted in: Books,Loving Others | Author: Crossway Staff @ 9:01 am | (3) Comments »

On What it Means to Be a Christian

9781433507021In Holy Subversion, Trevin Wax explains that we have an enemy who seeks to hold us in his clutches by perverting God’s gifts (sex, money, leisure, success, power) and propping them up until they take over our sin-infested hearts and occupy the throne that should belong to Jesus. Wax calls the church to crush these contemporary idols by living out the gospel in a community that zealously undermines all that competes for our allegiance.

Wax explains:

True conversion manifests itself in our pledging allegiance to Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, hence Paul’s early formulation of the Christian creed: “Jesus is Lord and God raised him from the dead.” Christianity hinges upon Jesus and what has happened to him in history. When we confess with our mouths that he is Lord, and believe in our hearts in his resurrection, we are saved.

Acts 17 records the results of this outward transformation:

They dragged Jason and some of the brothers before the city authorities, shouting, “These men who have turned the world upside down have come here also, and Jason has received them, and they are all acting against the decrees of Caesar, saying that there is another king, Jesus.” (Acts 17:6–7)

What if we heard these words again from those in our own generation? These Christians are turning the world upside down! They are acting against the Caesars of our day.

They are disobeying the Caesar of Success by praying for their competitors, making career choices that put family over finances, and seeking to be above reproach in their business practices.

They are dethroning the Caesar of Money by giving away their possessions and downsizing.

They are acting against the Caesar of Leisure and entertainment by sacrificing vacation time to go to foreign countries to help others who will never be able to return the favor.

They refuse to worship the Caesar of Sex and instead commit themselves to chastity, purity, and faithfulness in marriage for life.

They are acting against the Caesar of Power by modeling the self-giving love of their King.

And most of all, these Christians are saying there is another King—Jesus.

As Christians, we pledge allegiance to Jesus as King. We believe that Jesus, the Messiah of Israel who was crucified for our sins, has been raised from the dead and is now Lord of the universe. This means that we are to put our trust in his sacrifice and live submissively under his lordship.

It is not enough to think that salvation is a mere acceptance of a ticket to heaven that leaves the rest of our life intact. Salvation in Jesus Christ transforms lives. Life transformation leads to involvement in the church. When the community of those who have given allegiance to Jesus Christ lives in such a way as to quietly subvert the Caesars of the day, world transformation follows.

This is what it means to be a Christian.

(Excerpt from Holy Subversion pp 32-33.)

January 19, 2010 | Posted in: Books,Pursuit of Holiness,Sanctification/Growth | Author: Crossway Staff @ 9:01 am | 0 Comments »