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Avoiding Not-So-Constructive Criticism

For most of us, the holidays include extensive time with family, sometimes including family that we don’t get to see all that often. Christin Ditchfield offers some practical words of wisdom as we interact with those we love:

For many of us, we make comments and suggestions to our loved ones because we want to encourage them to improve. We drop hints to our daughters about their clothing choices, we remind our husbands to fix the sink (multiple times), or we joke with our 30 year old sister about still being single, hoping to light a dating fire under her.

Our little criticisms are meant to be constructive. But too often, they end up devaluing or demoralizing instead. Our well-meant encouragement turns into unneeded pressure and stress. How can we expect our loved ones to be happy and inspired when all they really feel is inadequate? Our message comes across as disappointment.

So here’s her challenge to you these next couple weeks:

Instead of always finding fault, work instead to find the good. Offer encouragement as inspiration rather than critique. After all, would we ourselves be able to maintain the standards that we hold others to?

From A Way with Words by Christin Ditchfield

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December 21, 2010 | Posted in: Books,Family,Loving Others | Author: Crossway Staff @ 8:35 am | 1 Comment »

“God Becomes Man”…What?

Guest Post by Elyse Fitzpatrick

Okay, hold on just one moment. I know we’re all busy and that this time of year creates all sorts of added responsibilities and distractions, but what is that title again? “God Becomes Man”?…Um…What? Really?

Christmas is the one time of year when the entire world is forced to recognize that something astounding and significant has happened. Yes, I know that the majority of Christmas fuss isn’t about what we call the incarnation, but the truth is that the incarnation itself is so universe-altering that even the most crass commercialism is forced to surrender its cynicism. Words like “hope”, “peace” and “love” appear on shopping bags. Songs extolling the obscure birth of a seemingly illegitimate baby are hummed by shoppers everywhere. All of a sudden even the most hardened Scrooges among us remember friends and family and long to return to a time when what really matters matters: home and faith and selflessness. Something astonishing has happened: God has become man.

Now, if non-Christians respond to the incarnation like this, one might assume that Christians who understand the reality beneath the holiday shadow would be transformed by the truth of the incarnation every day…but are we? Are we shocked when we see the baby in the manger? Do we shake our heads in wonder? Or, have we left the incarnation, what He’s done, behind and focused in on what we’re supposed to do? If that’s the case with you, here are a few thoughts to help you remember what the incarnation means about you, about Him:

  • The incarnation shows us how weak we are: After all, how much power and influence does an infant have? And yet, He’s the Savior we needed.
  • The name of that incarnate baby, “Jesus” shows us our true need: We need a Savior from our sin, not moral reform. We need a Rescuer, not a self-help guru (Matthew 1:21).
  • The incarnation shows us that in every way He’s just like us. He suffered as an infant. He’s been tempted in every way just as we have, yet without sin. He knows what it is to be cold, to be dependent, to die…yes, even to live again.
  • The incarnation tells us that Christmas isn’t ever over. When we’ve packed up all the decorations and taken back all the mistaken gifts, he’ll still be the God/Man, interceding for us, bearing our flesh. Christmas will never end for Jesus: He’s eternally transformed.
  • The incarnation means that the only person who is qualified by His nature and life to pay for our sins has done so. The incarnation was always meant to lead him, to lead us, to the cross.
  • The incarnation means that we have fulfilled all the Law. Because we are united with him and he with us, we have loved God and our neighbor perfectly, because he has. We’re righteous because the God-Man has already done everything that needed to be done. We’re justified.
  • The incarnation means that when we enter heaven we’ll be greeted by Someone who is just like us, but with nail-scarred hands and feet. He’ll be the only one there with scars.

The Christmas story is ultimately a story about what Jesus has already done for us. It’s His story about His work accomplished because of His love for His bride. Let’s ask God to help us celebrate Christmas, the incarnation, all year, shall we? He’s done it all. We’re loved. What an astounding gift!

Guest Post by Elyse Fitzpatrick, author of Because He Loves Me, Comforts from the Cross, Counsel from the Cross, and the forthcoming Give them Grace. Elyse blogs at elysefitzpatrick.com.

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December 20, 2010 | Posted in: Author,Christmas | Author: Angie Cheatham @ 6:00 am | (3) Comments »

Win an Advanced Copy of the ESV Study Bible, Personal Size!

With Christmas coming quickly
Crossway thought about
The ESV Study Bible missing Christmas Eve service
Alone on the coffee table, by the couch

We’ve heard some say it’s thick and much too fat
To fit in your purse, man purse, or messenger bag

So we put it on a diet and sent it back to press
With all the same features, notes, and illustrations—but compressed
How can it be? What’s missing? You might ask
We just had to remove some of the articles from the back

But they’ll be available online for you to access for free
And don’t forget the Trutone and leather editions have a life-time guarantee

And just to make this silly rhyme a bit more fun
We’re giving away three advanced copies for you to choose from
Just leave a comment or tweet using #ESV
Telling us why you’d like this in time to fit under your tree.

CONTEST CLOSED 12/20/10
Terms:
Winners will be picked at random on Monday December 20th. We have two genuine leather copies and one Trutone, your choice while supplies last. Giveaway is for the US only. Study articles are free online only with access code included with purchase of a Study Bible. These are advanced copies, the ESV Study Bible Personal size will be available for purchase in January 2011.

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December 17, 2010 | Posted in: Christmas,ESV,Giveaways | Author: Angie Cheatham @ 3:29 pm | (231) Comments »

Putting the New Study Bible Size in Perspective

Here’s an inside look at the new ESV Study Bible, Personal Size (available in January 2011)!

This condensed Study Bible compresses all of the original study notes, full color maps and illustrations, charts, timelines, and intros. Some of the articles have been removed from this edition and moved to the web where it can be accessed for free with your esvonline.org code (included with the purchase of this Bible). Pre-order your copy today! Also available in genuine leather and Trutone.

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| Posted in: ESV,Editions,Study Bibles | Author: Angie Cheatham @ 9:53 am | (6) Comments »

Remembering the of Impact of “Share the Good News of Christmas” 2009

Crossway has been reflecting on the impact of last year’s Share the Good News of Christmas program in anticipation of these final weeks leading up to Christmas 2010! In 2009, over 743,000 Share the Good News of Christmas Bibles and kits were distributed by churches all across the nation.

Last year, Village Bible Church in Sugar Grove, IL distributed 8,000 Bibles as part of the program, serving as an incredible witness to the local community.

“Our congregation really enjoyed getting to meet neighbors whom they did not know and having an opportunity to walk the streets praying for the people who lived in the homes where they dropped off gift bags,” Pastor Keith Duff of Village Bible Church reported last year. “I think we gained just as much as those who received the Bibles. In retrospect, I wish we had picked up 16,000 Bibles rather than 8,000, as once people began handing them out it became contagious and they wanted to do more!”

Check out Village Bible Church’s 2009 Christmas story here.

If you and your church would like to participate in the 2010 program and reach out to your community this Christmas, visit GoodNewsofChristmas.org.

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| Posted in: Christmas,Evangelism,Event | Author: Crossway Staff @ 6:25 am | 0 Comments »