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7 Steps to Family Worship

Jesus likely owns your Sundays, but does he own your home? Making worship a part of the family routine is an essential part of having a spiritually vibrant household. If we don’t get into the Word daily as a family, children can learn to view church (and the Lord) as simply a nice, weekly excursion. Faith can become more of a show than a deep-seeded lifestyle. Having regular family devotionals is a way to make faith a daily, integral part of life, rather than a Sunday habit. Voddie Baucham Jr. offers seven steps to implement family worship in your home.

  1. Family worship must be born of conviction. As parents, you must be convinced that this is something you need. Without this conviction, follow through will be next to impossible.
  2. Family worship begins with the head of the household. Wives, don’t demand that your husband start family worship. It needs to come from him.
  3. Family worship must be scheduled. If we don’t plan a time to worship, we’ll skip it. It takes about 30 days to form a habit, so forming a worship schedule will help ingrain it into the family pattern.
  4. Family worship must be simple. It doesn’t need to be a big production. No power points necessary. All you need is commitment to gather together with the Word of God. Keeping it simple makes it easy to spice up or simplify when you want to.
  5. Family worship must be natural. Don’t try to be something you aren’t. This is not the time to pretend or be extravagant. Choose songs that your family loves to sing and study materials that fit your situation in life. Your children can detect a lack of authenticity.
  6. Family worship must be mandatory. Nobody gets to skip out, including sulky teenagers. Rebellion and family worship belong in different realms and require separate attention.
  7. Family worship must be participatory. It is not a performance by one gifted member of the family that is simply observed by everyone else. Invite your children to join in singing, choosing songs, reading Scripture, praying, discussing issues, etc. Participation will help your children grow, and can even touch the heart of the rebellious teen.

Learn more about surrendering your home to God in Family Driven Faith.

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September 21, 2011 | Posted in: Children,Family,Parenting,Sanctification/Growth,Worship | Author: Crossway Staff @ 10:17 am | 0 Comments »

Francis Chan: “Knowledge is essential, but not sufficient.”

Knowledge is essential, but it’s not sufficient. It takes knowledge for me to write this. We need to think. We must know the truth.

But knowledge alone is not sufficient for the Christian life. It’s not enough just to have knowledge. That’s why Paul says in 1 Corinthians 13:2: “If I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing.” Think hard. But know that it’s not enough. Paul says even if he had all knowledge but didn’t love, he would amount to nothing. In other words, you can be brilliant and worthless.

It would be like a great basketball player who never misses a shot but keeps shooting into the opponent’s basket. He may say, “I was five for five today from the three-point line,” but his teammates would respond, “But you’re killing our team! You’re shooting at the wrong basket!” He answers confidently, “But I did not miss.” That is the kind of attitude that Paul is confronting here. You might be brilliant, but you’re killing our team. You’re not building up the brothers; you’re making them feel dumb and wounding their conscience. You’re not stirring them up to love and good deeds. You just keep making them feel inadequate. By your knowledge, this weaker brother is being destroyed!

Your brilliance is worthless if you’re not building up your brother—and even worse if you’re destroying him with your knowledge. So when you look at people, do you love them? Do you think, Let me use my knowledge to build this person up?

What Christians Say to Each Other

So often when I read statements on blogs (or tweets)—comments that brothers will write to those who are supposed to be fellow brothers—I think, “Where is the love?” It burdens me. I can’t believe some of the things Christians say to each other in person—and maybe especially online (when you don’t have to look them in the face). How is what you’re saying supposed to build that brother—or anyone else who hears it or reads it? Our knowledge should be pressed into the service of love. It should serve to build each other up. That’s what love does. It builds up. It looks to help others, not hurt them.

True Knowledge

It is such a danger to puff yourself up and imagine that you’re a brilliant person. It’s like the school bully who imagines himself as the hero because he is the strongest. He can beat anyone up. But everyone else knows that he’s not a hero but a jerk. If he were a real hero, he would defend the weak. He would be lifting them up, using his strength to care for them and protect them, not to bully them.

In the same way, with biblical and theological “knowledge” come the intellectual bullies who seem to know so much and imagine themselves to be so knowledgeable. But Paul is saying that they may be only imagining that they are knowledgeable, because if they really knew, they would use their knowledge not to weaken others but to strengthen them. Not to tear them down but to build people up. That’s what love does.

A Closing Challenge to Thinkers

Thinkers, let’s not fool ourselves: To “be conformed to the image of [Christ]” is what we were predestined for, right (Rom. 8:29)? We’ve been predestined to walk as Jesus walked. It’s great if we have thought hard about Jesus and wrestled with doctrines such as predestination, but my prayer is that this information becomes true knowledge, and that we actually become like him, and that our knowledge doesn’t make us arrogant so that we gloat about it and show off what we know. My prayer for me, and for you, is that everyone we come in contact with would feel our love for them and be built up. That they would see the fruit of our having said, “How can I lift them up with this knowledge that I have?”

Let’s not fool ourselves and imagine that we know so much. Maybe we don’t know anything at all. Maybe some of us have been using our knowledge to tear our brother down and hurt that brother for whom Christ died. Let’s not be guilty of the Corinthian error.

So I’m asking God even right now as I write these final words that he would give me love for others. Oh, God, let me believe what I’m saying. And I hope that you would think through your words and how you can build others up and think about others as brothers and sisters in Christ—so much so that when unbelievers see it, they will have a glimpse of God.

Modified from Francis Chan’s contribution to Thinking. Loving. Doing.

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September 20, 2011 | Posted in: Pride and Humility,Speech | Author: Lindsay Tully @ 8:59 am | 1 Comment »

Video: Practical Tips and Tools for Lasting as a Leader (Part 2)

Dave Kraft continues his discussion with Doug Wilson (pastor at Christ Church in Moscow, Idaho) about his book, Leaders who Last, as well as his upcoming book Mistakes Leaders Make.

  • 0:23 – The genesis of Leaders who Last
  • 2:50 – Kraft’s second book is in the works: Mistakes Leaders Make
  • 4:26 – Resources available on davekraft.org
  • 7:22 – Books Kraft highly recommends

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September 19, 2011 | Posted in: Leadership | Author: Lindsay Tully @ 2:00 pm | 0 Comments »

Video: Doug Wilson Interviews Dave Kraft on Leadership

Doug Wilson (pastor at Christ Church in Moscow, Idaho) interviews Dave Kraft (author of Leaders Who Last) about Christian leadership. Watch the full video below or skip ahead to some key highlights:

  • 0:22 – Dave defines leadership
  • 2:23 – The difference between a leader and a manager
  • 4:36 – How do managers sometimes get in the way or fail?
  • 5:34 – How can a leader sin against a manager?
  • 6:30 – Respectful dependence of administrators and visionaries
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Interview with Kevin DeYoung and Greg Gilbert: What is the Mission of the Church?

There’s a really encouraging trend in evangelicalism that you’ve probably noticed, if not are already participating in. The church has become increasingly zealous to meet the many needs of the world—from famine and poverty to genocide and human trafficking. This trend forces churches and individual Christians to consider their role in social justice, mercy ministry, and missions. Because there are endless possibilities for service and the fact that the term “mission” is defined rather broadly and variably, trying to figure out what our mission actually is can be overwhelming. What should the priorities of the church be as it engages with the world?

That’s the question authors Kevin DeYoung and Greg Gilbert seek to help clarify in their newest book What is the Mission of the Church?: Making Sense of Social Justice, Shalom, and the Great Commission. They were kind enough to answer a handful of questions for the Crossway blog:

Crossway: How do you define mission? Is it different from missions? Missional? Why has the term become so convoluted?

Kevin DeYoung: Mission is what God sends us into the world to accomplish. In an ultimate sense, of course, you might say the mission of the church is to glorify God and enjoy him forever. But when we use the word “mission” we think more specifically of a task or goal which God sends us out to do. The send out is an important part of the definition—mission comes from a Latin word for “send.” We want to rescue the word mission. It has a long history and needs to be more precisely defined if we are to understand what missions week is about or what the missions committee does or what are missionaries are trying to accomplish. Missional is a newer term. It can simply be shorthand for “get out of your holy huddles and care about your communities.” But it also can encapsulate a number of assumptions about kingdom, shalom, incarnational ministry, social justice that need to be looked at carefully.

Crossway: How is the mission of the church distinct from the mission of individual Christians? Or from the mission of God?

Kevin DeYoung: God calls individual Christians to different tasks. Some may be artists or teachers or politicians or farmers. We can do all sorts of things to the glory of God. But God has given the institution of the church a unique task. She can support artists and love farmers, but God has not commanded the Church to paint or to grow corn. The Church is called to make disciples. As to the second question, we cannot simply equate the mission of God with the mission of the church. Some of what God does he promises to accomplish but does not expect us to create or bring about. Often we can’t do what God does in his mission. In other cases, it would be wrong for the Church to carry out the mission of God. God will destroy the wicked and unbelieving in the lake of fire. But that final judgment is not part of our mission. As a general rule, our role is to bear witness to God’s mission rather than to accomplish what only he can and should accomplish.

Crossway: You talk about how there are things the church can do that we often categorize as things that the church ought to do. Why is it important to distinguish between the two?

Greg Gilbert: It’s important to keep in mind the difference between can and ought because there are literally thousands of good things that the church could give itself to doing. One of the things that makes a discussion of the church’s mission difficult is that the issues are so often discussed in the abstract. People ask questions like, “Would it be wrong for the church to do this or that?” But any church leader with at least one budget-cycle of experience under his belt is going to realize that questions like that aren’t answered in the abstract. They’re answered in a world where resources are limited, where there are ten different good ideas on the table and resources to do precisely two of them. Church leaders have to do the hard work of figuring out which two to do. That’s why it’s important to have a clear sense of what the church’s mission actually is, given to her by her Lord. It helps us to do the hard thinking about where to put scarce resources, time, and energy.

Crossway: If the mission of the church is proclamation and disciple making, then what is the theological motivation for good works?

Greg Gilbert: The Bible gives us many motivations for good works, and they are not small motivations, either. For example, we do good works simply because we love God. We do good works because as Christians, we are to love our neighbors. We do them to show the world something of the character of God’s people and therefore of God himself. We do them because they are the natural fruit of a life that has known the grace of God. Those are just a few. We don’t in any way want to pull the rug out from under Christians’ desire to do good. In fact, the Bible tells us that we are to be “zealous” in doing good works. But it’s important that we motivate and understand those good works in the right way. That’s what we’re trying to do in What Is the Mission of the Church?.

Crossway: Why is it important for the church to undertake mercy ministries in their communities?

Greg Gilbert: Mercy ministries can be a great way to further the church’s mission of proclaiming the gospel and making disciples. Both of our churches are involved in various mercy ministries, and we encourage our members to be involved, too. When you reach out and love the people around you, several things happen. For one, you create space for people to hear what you have to say. Many people have simply shut their ears and minds to the church’s message, but when they unexpectedly see Christians going out of their way to love, it challenges their preconceptions and opens up room for them to hear the gospel. Also, when the church involves itself in mercy ministries, that can be a powerful validation of the church’s message in people’s minds: The gospel message that the church proclaims really does result in changed lives, changed motivations, and changed desires.

Crossway: What’s the danger in underselling what the Bible says about the poor and social justice? What’s the danger in overselling?

Kevin DeYoung: Obviously, the danger in underselling what the Bible says about the poor is that we excuse disobedience and apathy. Jesus was moved by human need; so should we. On the other hand, if we oversell the point, we end up making Christians feel guilty for things they are not really guilty of. Our motives may be good, but we can end up exhausting people, or worse, advocating positions and policies that seem biblical but may actually harm the people we mean to help. And one other point: whenever we talk about the poor there is a danger that we forget our own spiritual poverty and only think of the poor as people we must rescue, only as those over there with problems that we must solve.

Learn more about What is the Mission of the Church, read a sample chapter, or check out a video of them discussing the topic.

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September 16, 2011 | Posted in: Church and Ministry,Interviews,Missions,Social Issues | Author: Angie Cheatham @ 6:00 am | (2) Comments »