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The Bored Life Isn’t Worth Living

Guest post by Stephen J. Nichols

As the last weeks of summer dwindle down we could add another chorus of voices to the chirping crickets at nightfall, the refrain emanating from our kids, “We’re so bored!” But before we say kids these days, we need to confess our own sins of boredom. If the American Medical Association were to label boredom a disease, we would have to declare an epidemic.

A few decades back, Neil Postman wrote a scathing critique of American culture, indicting us all for, as the title has it, Amusing Ourselves to Death. Now a few decades later after billions of dollars and countless hours spent in the full-throttled pursuit of pleasure, we have amused ourselves right into boredom. What’s left for us to have? What’s left for us to experience?

Boredom begets a loss of a sense of wonder. Our loss of a sense of wonder begets a loss of appreciation. And our loss of appreciation begets a loss of gratitude—quite a downward spiral. Throughout the pages of Scripture you’ll find that God simply wants us to be grateful. In the Old Testament, ingratitude gets put right on par with idolatry. Shocking. Paul states it plainly in Romans 1 when he charges that even though God has made himself known to us in the visible world, we “did not honor him as God or give thanks to him” (Rom 1:21).

God has placed us in his world. More often than not, we offer up grumblings of ingratitude instead of grateful praises from thankful hearts. God made us and he made us for himself and put us in the world of his design—a world of beauty and wonder. Yet too often we put our hands in our pockets, shrug our shoulders, let out a yawn, and walk off. Since we’ve lost our sense of wonder, we have forgotten to how to say thank you.

Embracing the doctrine of creation, reading creation, is the antidote to boredom and yawning, to ingratitude. How can we yawn at what God has made? When we acknowledge God as creator of all things, we regain our sense of wonder, we regain our sense of appreciation, and we regain our sense of gratitude. We stop yawning. We start hearing the chirping of crickets and we say thank you.

Adapted from Welcome to the Story: Reading, Loving, & Living God’s Word

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August 9, 2011 | Posted in: Gratitude | Author: Crossway Staff @ 7:12 am | 0 Comments »

Cutting the Nerve of Complaining

By Stephen Altrogge from The Greener Grass Conspiracy

Nobody likes a complainer. And yet most of us find ourselves complaining on a fairly regular basis. My stint in the Midwest elicited daily shrieks of complaint at the frigid January wind. “Who on earth decided to establish a major city in this wretched climate,” I would rant to the nearest cringing ear.

The fact is, most of our complaining stems from a faulty sense of entitlement. We all have long lists of things we think we deserve. When everything that we “deserve” doesn’t fall in our laps, we complain. We view ourselves as the injured party who has every right to grumble. Work is stressful, we don’t feel like we deserve that. We have relational problems, we don’t feel like we deserve that either. And apparently I felt like I deserved sunny skies and 70 degrees in the middle of a Chicago winter.

The gospel makes it clear that all we deserve is hell. God created us. Therefore he owns us, and we owe him our complete allegiance and gratitude. But we rebelled. We wave him off as unimportant even as we revel in his blessings every day, living in warm houses, eating delicious food, and enjoying the company of loved ones.

The beauty of the gospel is getting what we don’t deserve. We have mercy instead of justice, salvation instead of damnation. Even on our worst days we are doing infinitely better than we deserve. When we complain, we are telling God that this incredible grace isn’t enough.

In order to cut complaining out of our lives, we should actively savor and apply the gospel. We must adopt an attitude of deep thankfulness. Let’s remember the incredible grace and blessing we have received in light of our utter depravity. We really could not ask for more.

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June 29, 2011 | Posted in: Books,Gratitude,Pursuit of Holiness,The Gospel | Author: Crossway Staff @ 9:30 am | 0 Comments »

The Greener Grass Conspiracy

Have you noticed how many unhappy Christians there are?

We try to anchor our happiness in relationships or having the right stuff or doing the right things.  We become victims of circumstance.

And our discontent runs deep.

What does it look like to be happy right where we are? To be free from the greener grass conspiracy…

Learn about The Greener Grass Conspiracy or read a sample chapter.

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April 11, 2011 | Posted in: Author,Books,Gratitude,Sin & Temptation,Video | Author: James Kinnard @ 7:27 am | 1 Comment »

Remembering the Thanksgiving Story

Take a few minutes this Thanksgiving to remember the godly men and women who risked everything for the freedom to worship the Lord. Barbara Rainey’s beautiful book Thanksgiving: A Time to Remember tells the story of the Pilgrims, a story of determination, perseverance, and faithfulness. With an emphasis on God’s provision and the Pilgrims’ thankful hearts, this meaningful rendition of the Thanksgiving story will give a festive fall household an extra dose of thankfulness.

Curl up by a Thanksgiving fire and start a tradition with your family this holiday, remembering God’s grace in our country’s earliest days. With beautiful photos and illustrations, this book is the perfect addition to a coffee table or fall display and will serve as a lovely reminder of the providence of God.

Learn more about Thanksgiving: A Time to Remember.

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November 16, 2010 | Posted in: Books,Gratitude,History and Biography | Author: Crossway Staff @ 6:00 am | 0 Comments »

Grumbling or Gratitude?

Does it ever seem surprising to you that God made the Israelites wander in the wilderness for forty years because they grumbled? My kids may have spent thirty minutes in their rooms for griping, but forty years? What a severe discipline! Ouch, it seems harsh.

God clearly is not pleased with grumbling. It doesn’t make Him happy to hear His children complain constantly. Sound like any children you know?

Being grateful is a choice. It’s not a feeling dependent on our circumstances, as we clearly see in the Pilgrims’ lives. They believed that God was in control— “Providence”, they called it. They responded to the circumstances of their lives with a perspective that said, “God has allowed this for our good.”

John Piper has written in his book A Godward Life: “Remembering our dependence on past mercies kindles gratitude. Gratitude is past-oriented dependence; faith is future-oriented dependence. Both forms of dependence are humble, self-forgetting and God-exalting. If we do not believe that we are deeply dependent on God for all we have or hope to have, then the very spring of gratitude and faith runs dry.”

Gratitude is what we express when we take time every Thanksgiving Day to remember God’s past mercies and provisions and then pause to thank Him for them.

The stories of those who have gone before us inspire our faith. When we consider those great saints listed in the “Hall of Faith” in Hebrews 11 or our Pilgrim forefathers or those men and women we know in recent times who have modeled great dependence on God, our faith is stretched and increased. Their example of placing all hope in Jesus Christ encourages us to do the same.

Hebrews 11:1 says, “Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen.” Those who sailed on the Mayflower knew their Bible well. They were convinced that God existed and could only be pleased through faith (Hebrews 11:6).

Someone has said, “Faith is a firm conviction, a personal surrender, and a conduct inspired by your surrender.” The Pilgrims were totally surrendered to God, and they believed that He was leading them to the New World. So they went, confident that He would guide and provide.

The Bible is full of verses on giving thanks. Our problem in America is not that we don’t know we are to be thankful, but often we choose to complain instead. The Psalms contain a number of verses that call thanksgiving a sacrifice:

Offer to God a sacrifice of thanksgiving. (Psalm 50:14)

He who offers a sacrifice of thanksgiving honors Me. (Psalm 50:23)

Let them also offer sacrifices of thanksgiving. (Psalm 107:22)

To You I shall offer a sacrifice of thanksgiving, and call upon the name of the LORD. (Psalm 116:17)

Why is it a sacrifice to give thanks to the Lord? Because being thankful forces us to take our eyes off ourselves and put them on the Lord. Giving up our self-focus is the kind of denial that pleases God.

As a nation, we have inherited a remarkable gift in our freedom to worship, but we have strayed far from our roots and heritage. We must return to the faith of our fathers. Developing a heart of gratitude is the beginning step in growing a stronger faith. Remember what God has done and believe that He will take care of us in the future.

This excerpt was taken from Thanksgiving: A Time to Remember by Barbara Rainey. You can read some sample material online:

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November 25, 2008 | Posted in: Books,Gratitude | Author: Crossway Staff @ 9:21 am | 0 Comments »